Many people that have been in long-term relationships experience a loss in sexual appeal towards their partners.
This may be due to getting bored of the same routine and sexual interaction over and over again and is quite normal. If this is the case – and depending to what degree it may be time to shake things up and try something a little different. Surprisingly simply changing your bedroom around and redecorating can have a serious effect on your sex life – just as trying a new position, some sex toys, or even a little BDSM can lead to a mind-blowing sexual experience. Changing things up and perhaps taking a weekend off to spend some quality time together can help you get rekindle your sex life.
Apart from losing your sexual desire for your long-term partner, relationship problems will also cause your sex-life to diminish and eventually come to a complete standstill so addressing these issues is the first step that you need to take to attempt to get your sex drive back.