Sometimes it might seem impossible to know what women want.
One moment they say they want a man who is kind, loving and devoted, but then the next moment they will turn around and fall for the first guy who drives a motorcycle and treats them poorly. It is enough to drive any man insane.
While this might make women seem like a foreign species, wooing a woman can be far easier than you might think. There are a few things that women cannot help but find irresistible, and it will draw any women into your web. Of course, it does not hurt to be tall, dark and handsome – but if you are average and 5″8, all hope is not lost.
As unbelievable as it might sound, there are a few things that a man can do in order to become practically irresistible to women. In order to help you out, we have comprised a list of five things you can do that have proven to be successful.
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Be Funny
There is nothing a woman loves more than finding a man who can make her laugh.
If we have to get scientific, it probably has something to do with the endorphins that are released whenever we laugh. Endorphins are chemicals that are produced by the central nervous system and the pituitary gland, causing us to feel happiness.
This chemical is released during activities like exercise, sex and of course laughter.
The more you make a woman laugh, the more she will associate you with happiness, which will make her want to be around you more – ultimately causing her to fall for you.
Just be careful not to be too hyper and overly-excited in an attempt to be funny, she will most likely find this kind of behaviour off-putting.
Be Clever
Women enjoy being around intelligent men.
We have all heard the cliché story that women do not like geeky men.
While this might be true to some extent, it is also incredibly inaccurate. Though I strongly doubt that any woman is attracted to a man with pasty skin, suspenders, and a terrible stutter, the intelligence factor is another matter.
If you are able to quote Pushkin and make her think just a bit every now and then, you are guaranteed to intrigue her.
Women can be incredibly attracted to men who are intelligent and wear it well. Just be sure to not make her feel like too much of an intellectual inferior.
Be Dominant
In a world full of aggressive feminists, many men have forgotten their rightful place in this world.
Women are naturally attracted to dominant men. No matter how stubborn or feministic she might believe herself to be, if a man shows dominance over a woman, her natural instincts will kick in.
Dominance has nothing to do with being rude or getting physical.
It is simply about taking charge and making your position as the alpha clear to her.
The problem with this is that so many men take this too far. Being dominant does not mean that you should disregard her feelings and opinions.
You should always respect a woman, simply while still showing her that you are dominant.
Be Thoughtful
A woman wants a man who is thoughtful and compassionate – when necessary.
Being the strong, intellectual alpha dog will only get you so far. You need to pay attention to her when she talks and take note when she is feeling down. It is important to pay attention to her, otherwise, some other guy will, and he will end up taking your place.
Just try to avoid the word “crazy”.
With that said, women have far more emotions than men – most of these emotions being completely unnecessary. So every now and then, you will notice that she is acting completely insane and you might feel the need to tell her that she is being crazy. You might be surprised to learn that you can do this – just try to avoid the word “crazy”.
If you “put her in her place” from time to time, she will see you as a real man, rather than a mushy guy who will undoubtedly end up being friend-zoned. But remember to be thoughtful – even jerks only get so far.
Be Confident
Confidence is one of the sexiest traits in both men and women.
No matter what sex you are, if you carry yourself with confidence, you will appear to be attractive.
You can even be a little bit arrogant.
Women tend to like that.
Try not to be over-confident and do not place your confidence in the wrong things. The number of women who will be impressed by your level 80 World of Warcraft account is very small. If you want to be confident in a certain trait or talent then make sure that it is justifiable.
While being confident, you need to give her the opportunity to talk about herself and ask her questions about her life. If you only talk about yourself, she will feel like you aren’t interested in her.